 
On Satuday the 12th of May, I attended the Equal Love Marriage Equality Rally in Brisbane. As usual, I dressed up for the occasion, with the purpose to make a point about same-sex marriage. This time I chose to go as a non-gendered wedding cake. Why? Because I believe love has no gender! Needless to say it was a hit. Over the last few days I’ve been tagged in God knows how many photos. LoL. Not to mention the news coverage lol Continue reading

So today I moved into my new place and I have to say I quite like it. It may just be two streets over from where I was living, and the walls maybe a little too pinkish for my liking, but it’s my new home nonetheless and a strong feeling of contentment [...]

There are certain nights out, familiar faces from long ago resurface. Not so familiar but chance encounters that may have originally thought to be brief last a night out. Continue reading

One thing I’ve really been coming to understand lately is the self-realization of improvement.
Over the Xmas and New Years break I spent nearly two weeks in the Northern QLD area getting back to the basics. When the only light you get is from candles at night, you really come to understand what’s important in life. Continue reading

A twist of change. A bitter but delicious taste on the tip of my tongue. A piercing, a new look. Dreams and hopes become an understanding. Life flowing in a new direction. He gently glances up with that all too familiar look, present but unattainable.
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Tis been a while since I posted links to my most recent articles… so you know what that means? Here they all are. I won’t deny the last few months have been pretty busy with some amazing stories, so check them out and let me know what you think.
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Fairy Tales, Hopes, And Dreams…
My lips press against another as Time Square glows with life. The unknown prince. Riding a great white stallion, he rescues me from the slumber spell of life… A modern day fairy tale, a happy ever after ending one could only wish for. Continue reading

The wind gently blows, change is on the horizon. Nearing the inevitable thirty landmark. Decisions, choices to be made. Another twist down the path in the pursuit of happiness. Continue reading

The rain gently falls, I hear the soft splashes as it hits the ground below. Traffic can be heard racing down wet roads in the distance. The world of nature and man-made urbania become one. Continue reading

Change is happening and it’s hard not to be excited. Wednesday night I witnessed a historic moment in Queensland LGBT history when the Civil Unions bill was passed in parliament. The bill was introduced by deputy premier Andrew Fraser, which allows same-sex or heterosexual couples to register their union with the Queensland Registry of Births, Deaths and Marriages. While it isn’t full marriage equality it is a step in the right direction. Today however another historic moment took place with the ALP changing the party’s platform to support same-sex marriage. What this now means is that a bill will be put forward to parliament in the hope of changing the Marriage Act to support same-sex marriage. Finally our government is getting with times. The fight for equality is far from over, but this is also a positive step in the right direction.
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I live in this mentality in regards to people I NEVER chase, especially in regards to relationships.
Now don’t get me wrong, I believe a little bit of a pursuit is healthy when getting to know a potential, but I think too often people blur the lines between the “pursuit” and that of the “chase.”
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Now I’ll be straight up, one day I would like the right to say to the person I love, “Will you marry me?” not “Will you civil union me? Continue reading

I find just like life is constantly changing around me so am I. Some afternoons I find myself flicking through the endless photos on my Facebook recalling memories of long ago. Continue reading
Some people say they don’t care what people think about them but the minute they’re on the dance floor they stiffen up and you can see clear as day that they’re paranoid what people might be thinking of them…not to mention they look like they’re having convulsions while they dance. Some people break up with others because they don’t get along with their friends when they technically should take it up with the person in question. Some people tell others that they love them and when that person chooses not to be in a relationship they will have nothing to do with them. Some want to play happy housewife, but the minute they’re in a relationship the first thing they try and do is get out of it. Some people say they admire you, but when your back is turned they’re throwing daggers in your back any chance they can get. Some people will stand up for others but never stand up for themselves. Some actually think orange fake tans are sexy. They’re not! Some say they’re not superficial yet when ever they get a chance they judge others on what they’re wearing and more so the looks that they were born with. Some people claim to be friends, but don’t realise they are a two way street. Some parents say they love their children, but will take any opportunity to tear them down rather then build them up. Some say they don’t ever want to be like their parents but their actions and behaviour say otherwise. Religious people worship a God of love, and yet they preach hate. Some claim they want equality but demand to be treated differently, while others believe in equality yet treat people differently. Some people whine endlessly about their weight, eat takeaway and sit in front of a TV all day. Some people want change but will not take any action. Julia Gillard is a self proclaim atheist who is against same-sex marriage because it is against her traditional beliefs. Yes people confuse me sometimes.
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My feet are sore, heavy black shoes weigh my feet to the ground. 8 hrs waiting tables, “may I offer you a wine?” polish glass, pop a bottle or fifty. Sweat, my hair had looked nice. A visit by an admiration. Such brief time spent, but he did manage to bring a smile to my face. [...]

So yesterday I had the privilege of sharing a thanksgiving lunch (Australia time). Why? Well one of my adorable housemates is of American descent and her mum was down for a couple of days so it was decided we would share a thanksgiving lunch.
Straight up I have to say it was bloody delicious even though afterwards I did feel quite pregnant. The turkey was delicious.
There is something awesome about sharing a meal with the people dear to your heart and taking moment to be thankful for some of the great things you have in life. I guess that is one ritual that the Americans have that I can’t help but be appreciative of. Continue reading
4:05 am. No more assessments for 2011. Relief. Friendships and relationships go two ways, they rarely last any other way. Facing the prospect of culling narcissistic people from my life. I find greater need to surround myself with people that will build me up rather then tear me down. I eagerly await reuniting with a friend [...]
This evening I finished my final assessment for my second year of college. I won’t deny that it is if a huge weight has been lifted of my shoulders. How do I say it nicely? This second semester of this year was a BITCH!!! We had a group project that went terribly wrong… long story. It’s [...]

I’m sure I’m not the only one who has said once or twice “I’m just not good enough” for a certain somebody.
I’m sure some of you at times have found yourself keen on someone and you’ve taken a risk and told them your feelings and didn’t get the reaction you had hoped for. Continue reading
Emotions and feelings can be odd things. Every so often an event takes place that leaves you not knowing what you are and what you should be feeling. This past weekend had one of those moments. Even now I’m still not quite sure how I feel, so once more I find myself turning to my blog to set my fingers free on the keyboard in hope of a little understanding and clarity.
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